Here are some simple answers for you. If you're a girl/guy and your guy/girl cheats on you? leave him. If you're a girl/guy and your guy/girl even attempts to hit you or abuse you in any way (even pushing you or VERBALLY abusing you is bad enough)? leave him/her. Plain and simple, really. I'm telling you.. just cuz statistics show that half the on-going relationships include abusive partners or partners who cheat, DOES NOT mean you should become part of the statistic. Be aware of the symptoms, people!

And to those offenders who've committed such heinous acts against your partners... You should be shamed of yourselves. I don't know what your parents did when you were growing up, but simply cuz your surroundings taught you that way doesn't give you the right to carry on the tradition in the society at large. You people make me sick. Don't even TRY to convince me that you can justify those kind of behaviors.