| Note to self... When you think the other person may be wrong, try the following intro. "I can see where you're coming from. What do you think would happen if you did this instead?" That will open the floor up to discussion instead of triggering the other person to go on defending one's self. I find that many of the even senior people don't understand this simple logic... and it's quite frustrating to see how they start finger pointing.... grrr... the point is to work together to achieve a mutual goal, not to judge other people's ideas or skills... -.-; |
